To those who listen to the people who say those things.... Don't you listen to anyone but yourself! cause if they have the time to put you down like that you don't have the time to listen to there issues. That's there problem not yours.
I'm not meaning just the curvaceous people but to the skinny people, people think because your skinny it means you don't eat or your anorexic or bulimic and most of the time it's not true it's just how you are, and if it is for those reasons just like a big person may be big because of medication or depression or genetics it isn't your fault and there judgement backfires in itself by the fact that it isn't your fault. not that there is fault in being big in the first place if you don't have a reason. If your happy and healthy what matters? if you are going through troubled times medically or physically then as long as you yourself are determined to sort that out then what they look at wont matter because you know the goal you want to reach and you know that this may not be you so they aren't judging you there judging what has happened due to something you aren't that something.